REALATIONSHIP talk with Nike
Adekunle
There is a lot to do during singlehood, marriage is
not the only thing you can look forward to achieving. Some singles suspend
everything else for marriage. Don’t waste singlehood waiting for marriage,
explore all the available opportunities because once the period slips away it
cannot be recovered.
This period is essentially the learning phase of life. A single
person has quite a number of things to learn before the arrival of the next
phase. Not learning some of these lessons does not
mean they are doomed for eternal singlehood, it only increases the chances of
unhappiness and divorce after marriage. As earlier noted, a well-prepared
person performs better than an average smart person. Therefore the single stage
is basically a period where devotion should be given to learning.
You should therefore learn:
1. Learn about the opposite sex:
There are traits that are peculiar to each sex. Avail
yourself with fundamental information and facts that will regulate your
expectation to more realistic dreams. There is a need to state that any
information gathered at this stage should still be subjected to reality test
when your partner eventually emerges. Give room for your partner’s peculiarity
and uniqueness. This information are only general guides and usually come in
handy.
2.. Know yourself:
Some people require other people’s approval to define
their self-worth. This is utterly inappropriate. People can give you a
misleading definition based on erroneous perception. Some people run after
labels of big brands, stamps of famous people or endorsement from the high and
mighty to define themselves.
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TO BE CONTINUED
