THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE MARRIAGE

REALATIONSHIP talk with Nike Adekunle

There is a lot to do during singlehood, marriage is not the only thing you can look forward to achieving. Some singles suspend everything else for marriage. Don’t waste singlehood waiting for marriage, explore all the available opportunities because once the period slips away it cannot be recovered.

This period is essentially the learning phase of life. A single person has quite a number of things to learn before the arrival of the next phase. Not learning some of these lessons does not mean they are doomed for eternal singlehood, it only increases the chances of unhappiness and divorce after marriage. As earlier noted, a well-prepared person performs better than an average smart person. Therefore the single stage is basically a period where devotion should be given to learning.

You should therefore learn:

1. Learn about the opposite sex:

There are traits that are peculiar to each sex. Avail yourself with fundamental information and facts that will regulate your expectation to more realistic dreams. There is a need to state that any information gathered at this stage should still be subjected to reality test when your partner eventually emerges. Give room for your partner’s peculiarity and uniqueness. This information are only general guides and usually come in handy.

2.. Know yourself:

Some people require other people’s approval to define their self-worth. This is utterly inappropriate. People can give you a misleading definition based on erroneous perception. Some people run after labels of big brands, stamps of famous people or endorsement from the high and mighty to define themselves.

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