Monday, 27 October 2014

YOU COULD BE BLOCKING RELATIONSHIPS UNKNOWINGLY

You may unknowingly be blocking yourself from getting into a relationship. Here are six ways to find out.
Everyone you know seems to be getting into relationships and leaving you behind in singledom.
So why are you the odd one out?
Check out this list to see if any of these relationship roadblocks are keeping you from building a healthy, loving bond.

1.  Too Busy: Is love on the calendar? If sleep is barely on there, then the answer is probably no. If the workaholic in you is taking over, now is the time to carve out mandatory rest and relaxation. Make room in life to be found.
2.  Baggage: Old relationship residue could be clogging-up your chances. Try to fight the urge to discuss old relationships (especially on first dates). Resolve issues and emotional baggage before taking the next step.

3.  High Expectations: Keep your standards, just make sure that your expectations are realistic. Don't let your pre-judgments prevent the possibility of getting to know someone.
4.  Indecisive: We all have a list of what we want and don't want in a relationship. It might be time to revise and update if you seem to be continually missing the mark.
5.  Too Critical: A faultfinding attitude is the quickest way to dissolve any relationship. Do your best to overcome this if it's a reoccurring habit. Practice encouraging others and regularly giving praise.
6.  Just Not Ready: The truth is it might not be time yet. Enjoy singleness while working out the kinks. Have fun being the best version of yourself you can possibly be.

Source: http://pulse.ng/


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