If you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend
to become your wife, deciding if you’re ready to make the commitment to
marriage is only half the battle.
You have to be absolutely sure that the woman
in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out.
Love alone is not enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics
are warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road. Here are some of the
most obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material.
1. She
cuts you off from loved ones: A girlfriend who always becomes sick when
it’s time to spend quality time with your family and even forbids you from
hanging out with your friends will only act worse after you say your vows.
2. She
bails on you when times get tough: Life isn’t always a bowl of cherries, but
that doesn’t mean that the woman in your life should just disappear when the
times get tough. If your girlfriend is not supportive of you emotionally
through difficult times and only stands by you when things are going good,
she’s not the one you should be walking down the aisle with.
3. She
displays psychotic behaviors: A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding
and insanity might not be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If
she displays severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of influence
her crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future. Marrying a woman
like this will most likely ruin your life and your perception of women forever.
4. She’s
too clingy: If your girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do anything without
you, calls you twenty times a day and destroys any chance of you missing her
because the two of you are never apart, she’s going to make a bad wife.
5. She
has nothing going on for herself: You should want to marry a woman who has
goals and brings something better to your life, not one who is up to her neck
in debt, has no income, displays unpredictable behaviors and has tried
numerous, short-lived career paths yet never knows what she wants in life. This
type of fickle lifestyle could derail your own life plan as well.
6. She’s
controlling: If your girlfriend controls all of your conversations,
constantly forces you into agreeing with her and acts as an overbearing,
emotional bully, it’ll only get worse after you say “I do.”
7. She’s
already cheated on you: Do you honestly believe that a woman is
marriage material if she has been unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes,
a person can always change and learn from their mistakes; however, a cheating
girlfriend will more than likely continue to be unfaithful after marriage.
8. She’s
extremely jealous: Although a little bit of jealousy is essential for a
healthy relationship, extreme jealousy arises in a relationship because of high
levels of insecurity. If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes
near you, refuses to accept that you have female friends and feels threatened
when you discuss your previous relationships, putting a ring on her finger is
not going to make her more secure.
9. She
can’t admit when she’s wrong: If she always seems to have the upper hand in
arguments, refuses to admit her faults or even treat you as an equal, she’s not
the marrying kind.
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